Happiness is to be created not to be found. 

  

Advertisements

Confessions Of A Drunken Man

Every minute was like year long, eyes on the gate and ears were inattentive to hear the doorbell. Trrrrr there comes a friend to pick me
up for the party “Partytime”.
After a long time of planning for a hangout, we had fixed this party
at a bar. Then the so called day came and after convincing my wife with some requests and emotional encounters we moved with high spirits for the long awaited party and just stopped at ATM machine for some cash. In excitement, we started on the bike and just after two miles my friend looked for rearview and was shocked as there were no rear view mirrors which were there in our bike. We came back to the ATM and found our bike making fun of our craziness. To our hard or good luck no one had lodged any police complaint yet and our keys had unlocked some other bike. After it we had to hustle through the traffic jam to reach the decided place.
It was just my first drink I remember and it just took three shots to take me to cosmos. As usual transformed and attacked by an emotional
trauma.  We may have shared many things which were never attended in
sober condition. The beauty of the place was just greater than ever.
The pending discussions of last sittings (almost after a gap of two
years) were refreshed as if it was just yesterday. After two years of
my marriage this was for the first time I had come for party. I was
surprised to see the happiness I had from inside. A single soul
entered the bar and just in three hours all people around turned to
friends with same goal. I don’t know what a magical thing this is
which makes everyone your friend, you never think of hurting, flirting
rather will be always enjoying your own company and will strengthen
you to conquer the mountains or cross the oceans hahaha.. Even an
introvert in influence can talk to anyone and make many friends to
share happiness. The other benefit felt was to express and expose your
hidden and unexplored self. I was caught showering extra love on my
wife. OooopS.. Over and above the soothing sleep without any pills.
One thing which I missed that night was dinner with my wife and long
discussion with her. Hey the jackpot I cracked is strict warnings not
to repeat this again as she was in worry. The after experience got
that was I was caught with a never before seen smile and happiness. I
had been enjoying her abuses with a lovely smile, just imagine what I
did?
I can’t understand how people can be wrong in influence of alcohol
whereas I was a lovely, kind, honest, happy creature. I never say it
was right to take alcohol but can be tried once for lovely adventurous
memories. I feel in influence you have extraordinary quality to judge
people, look their hidden self beating all behavioral theories. Hey
you see I can bet it was the best of me as a true human.
With a little nervousness and attention to hide the influence I rang
the doorbell and she was there to welcome me at gate saying “oh what a
surprise darling” (same was it for me lolz) a bit of humour faded by
her sarcastic smile.
People see drunks with discrimination but I feel we must not be so
arrogant to anyone. A drunken man has always his own problems to fight
with as where are my keys? Where is my mobile, wallet etc and over and
above sometimes where is my home? One of my greatest observation is we
find many unknown good friends at bar which I can bet you will never
find in some other social place or gathering. No discrimination of
caste, creed, race, height, weight, poverty or richness. All are
humans at peak engaged in discovering himself ie SELF Actualization”.
Normally people hesitate to donate a single penny at religious place
but here you will find guys fighting to pay the bill with many
negotiation tricks.
If you have never visited a bar a lot many things you have missed in
life unexplored. A lot many features of humanity as helpfulness,
authority, smile, laughter, happiness… You might be thinking these are
common things we find normally but off course not without any reason
or sense. But at bar you have to really work hard to understand the
things.
It was my experience and explanation to a rightly said line “A drunk
man’s words are a sober man’s thoughts”.
A lot many of our readers will be thinking what’s there in the
experience to share about KINDNESS or related to this page
http://smallactofkindness.wordpress.com “ But my dear friends remember
by sharing this I had been so kind to my heart and wish.

Image

Its my wedding anniversary..,.. Bless us with your wishes

Its my wedding anniversary..,.. Bless us with your wishes

Hey 10th March 2012…… Sorry Sorry Sorry Its 10th March 2014… My 2nd wedding Anniversary

Few years back I asked this girl to marry me and was childishly thrilled to call her my wife for the first time in my life. I can still recall the slightest particulars of that day, up to my astonishment when I saw her in the awesome red dress approaching me in a palki.

So we are celebrating commitment, love and loyalty. Today is the day when how two totally different people became a unit while still retaining their individuality. In adherence to Newtons some law it was like the attraction of opposites.

But for me time has elapsed too fast… they say this always happens when you are happy. I am happy to be still violently in love with my wife and I appreciate all her care and tolerance throughout the years.

She always wonders how one can spend his whole day on bed with laptop working on http://smallactofkindness.wordpress.com/ specially on Sunday’s when others have a lot of plans. Me alike other husbands could not understand why she takes such a long time to buy a dress and to wear them. She is fond of making nailarts and I don’t like the smelling nail polishes. But with every passing year we have learnt to be tolerant of each other.

In these years we’ve done a lot together. We have learnt living independently; we did climbing, tried Skiing. But most importantly, we learned to tolerate with each other’s habits and traits, to say “sorry” when you are wrong and “I love you” on all other occasions. We learned to cherish every evening spent together – even if it means doing nothing special, just sitting on the sofa and confusingly trying to listen what she is saying and putting efforts to hear what going on TV. We learned being happy with what we have – and enjoying each others company.

Although everyday for me is like anniversary as whole day we work together, stay together. Before marriage it was really a great challenge for us how everything will workout being together whole day. But we are able to draw our personal and professional boundaries and feel are successful in that. Still sometimes get struck and confused in Sapna or Sapna Mam.

Of course, there are some ups and downs – but I must confess that the former greatly outnumbered the latter. Like a good wine, a good relationship becomes better and better with every passing year. It worked for our marriage and still makes my wife and me happy.

So Mrs Dadhwal, Lots of love for the special lady on the special day by Special Me  and keep enlightening my life….

A special thanks to all the lovely people around us for your wishes………

A lovely poem from internet…
Together
The day we both walked,
down our wedding isle.
I couldn’t help,
but joyously smile.
My tears of happiness,
were so hard to suppress.
My whole life lit up,
the moment you said yes.
We’ve been through,
so much together.
We can outlast,
the harshest cold weather.
I will always love you,
and show you respect.
It’s our wedding anniversary,
Let’s spend time and connect.
My smile is peaceful and calm,
while I look straight ahead.
As long as we have each other,
our hearts shall be fed.
Thank you for loving me,
with your heart and soul.
When we are together,
I feel completely whole.

you can bless us with a small text on +919888926264

Image

I want my childhood back

I want my childhood back

Sometimes I wonder if I could get my childhood days back. It was the time when we had no worries and tension. The best thing about children is they do whatever they want and never try to understand pros and cons. It is the best phase of one’s life. Children never have a constraint called time and see after that phase everyone is running short of time.

Hey can you share any of your childhood incidents which enjoy till today?

Image

Follow our blog smallactofkindness.wordpress.com

Follow our blog smallactofkindness.wordpress.com

Dear readers,
Kindly visit and our page to spread kindness “A small act of kindness can bring smile on million faces”. http://smallactofkindness.wordpress.com

All our lovely readers are requested to follow that awesome, energetic and inspirational page.

Love you all.

Image

A visit to Pingla Ghar Jalandhar (A Home for Homeless)

A visit to Pingla Ghar Jalandhar (A Home for Homeless)

Today Mom told us to donate our unused clothes to the inmates of Pingla Ghar (A Home for the Homeless. Providing Care to Handicapped, Destitute, Mentally Retarded and the Abondoned) Jalandhar. On just entering the main gate two old man came to help us. We told them our purpose of visit and they tried to take out the luggage. I was surprised to see the enthusiasm and the service spirit. We took the luggage and handed over with proper documentation. They told us about the history and profile of the inmates. It was amazing to see the happiness and spirit they are living. every physically challenged /homeless/Abandoned has divided their work according to their capabilities and they never seek any help from outsiders. After completing their assigned jobs happily they go and join other inmates to offer their help. This world was really different from the outside world where noone ever fulfills his/her responsibility and tend to pass on the responsibilities on others. I loved the environment and found there are old people who have sacrificed whole life in the service of mankind. May God bless them all and those also who are always there to help them. If you wanna help please visit their site http://pinglaghar.com/