Happiness is to be created not to be found. 



Kindness story: Farmer & 2 boys

Two boys walked down a road that led through a field. The younger of the two noticed a man toiling in the fields of his farm, his good clothes stacked neatly off to the side. The boy looked at his older friend and said, “Let’s hide his shoes so when he comes from the field, he won’t be able to find them. His expression will be priceless!” The boy laughed.
The older of the two boys thought for a moment and said, “The man looks poor. See his clothes? Let’s do this instead: Let’s hide….http://compassionkindness.com/2014/04/08/a-lovely-inspiring-story/


Its my wedding anniversary..,.. Bless us with your wishes

Its my wedding anniversary..,.. Bless us with your wishes

Hey 10th March 2012…… Sorry Sorry Sorry Its 10th March 2014… My 2nd wedding Anniversary

Few years back I asked this girl to marry me and was childishly thrilled to call her my wife for the first time in my life. I can still recall the slightest particulars of that day, up to my astonishment when I saw her in the awesome red dress approaching me in a palki.

So we are celebrating commitment, love and loyalty. Today is the day when how two totally different people became a unit while still retaining their individuality. In adherence to Newtons some law it was like the attraction of opposites.

But for me time has elapsed too fast… they say this always happens when you are happy. I am happy to be still violently in love with my wife and I appreciate all her care and tolerance throughout the years.

She always wonders how one can spend his whole day on bed with laptop working on http://smallactofkindness.wordpress.com/ specially on Sunday’s when others have a lot of plans. Me alike other husbands could not understand why she takes such a long time to buy a dress and to wear them. She is fond of making nailarts and I don’t like the smelling nail polishes. But with every passing year we have learnt to be tolerant of each other.

In these years we’ve done a lot together. We have learnt living independently; we did climbing, tried Skiing. But most importantly, we learned to tolerate with each other’s habits and traits, to say “sorry” when you are wrong and “I love you” on all other occasions. We learned to cherish every evening spent together – even if it means doing nothing special, just sitting on the sofa and confusingly trying to listen what she is saying and putting efforts to hear what going on TV. We learned being happy with what we have – and enjoying each others company.

Although everyday for me is like anniversary as whole day we work together, stay together. Before marriage it was really a great challenge for us how everything will workout being together whole day. But we are able to draw our personal and professional boundaries and feel are successful in that. Still sometimes get struck and confused in Sapna or Sapna Mam.

Of course, there are some ups and downs – but I must confess that the former greatly outnumbered the latter. Like a good wine, a good relationship becomes better and better with every passing year. It worked for our marriage and still makes my wife and me happy.

So Mrs Dadhwal, Lots of love for the special lady on the special day by Special Me  and keep enlightening my life….

A special thanks to all the lovely people around us for your wishes………

A lovely poem from internet…
The day we both walked,
down our wedding isle.
I couldn’t help,
but joyously smile.
My tears of happiness,
were so hard to suppress.
My whole life lit up,
the moment you said yes.
We’ve been through,
so much together.
We can outlast,
the harshest cold weather.
I will always love you,
and show you respect.
It’s our wedding anniversary,
Let’s spend time and connect.
My smile is peaceful and calm,
while I look straight ahead.
As long as we have each other,
our hearts shall be fed.
Thank you for loving me,
with your heart and soul.
When we are together,
I feel completely whole.

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A visit to Pingla Ghar Jalandhar (A Home for Homeless)

A visit to Pingla Ghar Jalandhar (A Home for Homeless)

Today Mom told us to donate our unused clothes to the inmates of Pingla Ghar (A Home for the Homeless. Providing Care to Handicapped, Destitute, Mentally Retarded and the Abondoned) Jalandhar. On just entering the main gate two old man came to help us. We told them our purpose of visit and they tried to take out the luggage. I was surprised to see the enthusiasm and the service spirit. We took the luggage and handed over with proper documentation. They told us about the history and profile of the inmates. It was amazing to see the happiness and spirit they are living. every physically challenged /homeless/Abandoned has divided their work according to their capabilities and they never seek any help from outsiders. After completing their assigned jobs happily they go and join other inmates to offer their help. This world was really different from the outside world where noone ever fulfills his/her responsibility and tend to pass on the responsibilities on others. I loved the environment and found there are old people who have sacrificed whole life in the service of mankind. May God bless them all and those also who are always there to help them. If you wanna help please visit their site http://pinglaghar.com/


Doggy with a kitten in family.

Doggy with a kitten in family.

I don’t want to express anything more. We humans should take a lesson. One of the most beautiful pictures i came across. Spread LOVE & KINDNESS. your one act can bring turnaround in someone’s life.

Please share your ideas and comment what you feel.



Be Happy, life is too short to live.

Be Happy, life is too short to live.

What a picture describing all phases of life and we can never accept how the time passes stage by stage ultimately taking us to a day where we are all memory of few. This time which we are living is the time we can change this few into all by our love, kindness, attachment and help to others which can make us memorable to many. One thing which i feel that the people who are remembered more after death or living are those who have changed the lives of other by their actions and deeds. while those who lived for themselves are always neglected. So our aim in life should be to spread love, kindness, compassion, harmony and help other through our small initiatives.

Imagine a world with love, peace, happiness and kindness all around.

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