Happy Earth Day 22-April.

A Small Act Of Kindness Can Bring Smile On Million Faces


It’s impossible to disregard the existence of our mother, but how unfortunate the humanity is today to neglect the mother of everyone’s mother “Mother Earth”. We are so deeply indulged to show patriotism about our country or religion. but leaving something more important for humanity that is offcourse the nature. Today on the Earth day we can put upbour efforts to contribute to nature. Lets take a pledge to conserve our natural resources, environment, nature and hence our earth for our own survival. It may be any country where we live but we owe a rent to be paid to nature. Being very busy throughout the year lets dedicate a day to honour the love, care, gift have got to exploit. Save nature for our successors, so that they can really visualise the beauty of our planet. Otherwise it may be history like jurassic park. Do small acts to save…

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By A..D..

“The cockroach theory for self development”

At a restaurant, a cockroach suddenly flew from somewhere and  sat on a lady. 

She started screaming out of fear. 

With a panic stricken face and trembling voice,she started jumping, with both her hands desperately trying to get rid of the cockroach.

Her reaction was contagious, as everyone in her group also got panicky.

The lady finally managed to push the cockroach away but …it landed on another lady in the group.

Now, it was the turn of the other lady in the group to continue the drama.

The waiter rushed forward to their rescue.

In the relay of throwing, the cockroach next fell upon the waiter.

The waiter stood firm, composed himself and observed the behavior of the cockroach on his shirt.

When he was confident enough, he grabbed it with his fingers and threw it out of the restaurant.

Sipping my coffee and watching the amusement, the antenna of my mind picked up a few thoughts and started wondering, was the cockroach 

responsible for their histrionic behavior?

If so, then why was the waiter not disturbed?

He handled it near to perfection, without any chaos.

It is not the cockroach, but the inability of the ladies to handle the disturbance caused by the cockroach that disturbed the ladies.

I realized that, it is not the shouting of my father or my boss or my wife that disturbs me, but it’s my inability to handle the disturbances caused by their shouting that disturbs me.

It’s not the traffic jams on the road that disturbs me, but my inability to handle the disturbance caused by the traffic jam that disturbs me.

More than the problem, it’s my reaction to the problem that creates chaos in my life.

Lessons learnt from the story:

I understood, I should not react in life.

I should always respond.

The women reacted, whereas the waiter responded.

Reactions are always instinctive whereas responses are always well thought of.

A beautiful way to 

understand…………LIFE.

Person who is HAPPY is not because Everything is RIGHT in his Life..

He is HAPPY because his Attitude towards Everything in his Life is Right….!!

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By A..D..

My Third Wedding Anniversary 10-Mar-15

A Small Act Of Kindness Can Bring Smile On Million Faces

“Marriages are settled in heaven but celebrated on Earth.

The unity of two unknown souls written right from birth.”

ashih

But definitely feel proud to choose her as my life partner and surprisingly our kundli’s matched to 31 gunas and she gave destination to my bachelorhood. It is quite a skillful to make your wedding anniversary, like other celebrated days, something to be remembered and again I made it by crediting one more gift in my account as of 2 Valentine days and 1 birthday gift LOL. As everyone must understand the most observed fact that good marriages get better with time, so each year should be a celebration of making something that was good and meaningful into something that is even better. Today we are celebrating another year of unmatched commitment, love and loyalty. We are celebrating how two totally different people became a unit while still retaining their individuality…

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The search of identity (what do you feel?)

Since childhood everyone starts to searching for people alike them, same was with me as no exception. As many obstacles like my shyness didn’t allow me to talk to anyone and try for exploring souls of my kind. Then somehow fusions took place and with increased interactions and social exposure let me realize in early twenties that i was wrong to search for identicals, or people similar to me in looks or visible features and suddenly concluded i have to explore my traits and people who were enjoying my company were of my type. Those who appreciates my views were somewhere related to me. Then sometime later also reached a fact, people who had been against me or in good words my critics were also of my type as they were understanding what i wanted to say. I concluded that we are not separated by whats outside (looks), rather united by whats inside (behaviour). Hmmmm life made me crazy i am always surrounded by all of my types. Everyone moving around has some part of me and obviously i also owe something from them. The love, kindness, help, smile is all we owe of them and need to return them across our life. Be fast to return it otherwise have to carry burden till last days of life. Humanity and mankind passes us responsibility of nurturing fellow beings.
A…D….

By A..D..